Have you ever wondered how to seduce women but don't have a clue as to go about it? Do not fret! It isn't as hard as you might think. In fact, if you can implement this little article effectively, it really can be easy as 123! Good looking or rich guys do not always have to get the girls, and if you always wondered why and how you can join their ranks, just read on!

First and foremost, is to look and be confident! This is something that you can't escape from and the factor that will help catch you the ladies, not the other way round! Women certainly do not want wussies, so being confident is the only way. Take care not to be over confident though, as it may be a turn off for certain women. Always remember to gauge your confident level and to find a balance! Don't play too safe, and don't go to the point of exaggeration.

Secondly, with your confidence must come a sense of humour! Being confident AND funny! Now, even if you were the ugliest guy on earth, with such a combination, even the hot chicks would swoon at your feet! Besides, humour makes her feel good too.

Thirdly, be a gentleman, not a brute! Open the door for her! Are you seriously going to let those petite arms open that heavy, bulky door? No! Carry her bag or books for her, be observant, and see her needs according to the situation. Women see these small things and appreciate them as a man willing to see to her needs and willing to take good care of her. And even if she doesn't have petite arms, and the door isn't that heavy, just open it for her. The thought means more to her than ever.

Next, always listen to what she is saying. Maybe sometimes she drags the conversation or is in overdrive in talk mode (Let's face it, that's women!), but just listen! The important thing is to listen.
Doing so will show her you care and that you are a gentleman, not just a man lusting after her. More importantly, she will open emotionally to you, thus trusting you more. And for a more personal touch, show an interest when she is talking! She will know you are sincere and will be more open to you.

Lastly, with regards to body language, do watch out closely! If she is generally leaning towards your position, she's comfortable with you. But if at any point her arms are crossed, work harder to make her more comfortable with you! Crossed arms are always a bad sign; it shows when a person is uncomfortable or defensive. You can read up more on body language books at your local bookstore. It's a worthy investment!

On a final note, it is vital to have a strategy. Think of it as capturing the enemy's base, and the woman is the defence. You don't just rush in there; you will get slaughtered, quite literally. Instead, always have a strategy at hand, as well as back up plans in case some things go wrong. More importantly, have fun doing it! After all, she could be just as funny and make you laugh till you ache too.

We've come to the end here, hope you learned something useful about seducing women!

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